Two Sides to Everything

I always try to consider that there are two sides to a story, two sides to everything. However, I have difficulty understanding people who mean harm to another person. I know logically that their issues or past traumas have shaped them, just as their actions will shape their victim, but on an emotional, compassionate level, I just cannot understand. Two Sides to Everything does understand; she understands enough to help both the victim and the perpetrator to find healing.